... And sometimes you can feel like you live in a dating sit com. Life can be as frivolous as that.I'm a
Brigit Jones in the making. Sleep is my refuge. Work is a substitute. Shopping is therapy instead of walks in the park. The right guys this time... must remember... only the genuine ones... no convincing yourself. Plenty of time, life's not worth a hasty decision. What we want we pursue, what comes convenient we convince. We can change, change is possible, inevitable . But change can be temporarily positive to achieve what we need- Words of the great master himself. Ah! this crochet life of words, sentences and associations!
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temorarily positive is "a real change"...to achieve what we need...but then to...
ReplyDeletemaybe loose it quickly (or slowly)
as the change was not sustained or was not truly change
safer to make positive change because it is the change that we want....and then maybe we get what we need?
well, I can't crochet...so can't expect much of my words;-)
Bridget Jones...a very likable character. I forget--what happens to her in the end?
The right guy....you decide...
and make sure he says you are the right girl for the right reasons
;-)
right doesn't mean "perfect"...right is reasonable...right is able to (blank) ...well, you decide, of course...
but I suggest (communicate) is a good one...
not just how much...but what and when and why?....
by the way, what would it take to know you are loved? what would it take to know you will grow a relationship....when you have one...do you expect it to grow...do you figure intimacy is important? how so?
hey, I'm full of "advice" tonight...and questions...just on my mind...as someone with love to give, and love to live ;-)
hey its been a while since i came here...apolozies
ReplyDeleteJen> my public apologies for not being able to email regularly, check your blog regularly. No internet and LOADS of work, as you know I'm now doing 2 jobs.
ReplyDeleteAnything that comes from feeling will be proof, and I shall know. Anything that I need to think over usually has issues and sometimes it feels like tampering a life, when I need to ask people its just that I'm not sure. And the right kind of guy will make enough effort to make you cnofident just like you want him to be sure about you when you love him. And when there is no love there is no way to sustain a relationship for me. Only in love to we overlook that we don't have much in common and that we need to change for the other person. But all this discussion is quite pointless I think. Its not easy to fall in love sometimes. Sometimes you are just not in the frame of mind. Thats the time you just need a break.
The people you bring into your life influence you immensely no matter how they or the influence be.
bugs> thats really bugging! I think you should hunt a map of bangalore and figure out where you are and how far is that from Ulsoor and let me know, also how far from koramagala or indiranagar, I can meet you anywhere nearby these places. Or take a weekend out and hang out at mine.
or that's the time that it stares you in the face :oP...love, that is...well, no ..I know what you mean...sometimes a break from looking...
ReplyDeleteI understand about when things get busy...I'm always here...well, if not busy:oP..but you know...
hope the jobs are going good...I see your observation...about people influencing each other...it is so true...it is not always obvious how sometimes...and sometimes it can surprise...and it is so interesting..
i agree with you on the part of the inability to sustain relationships without love. hell, sometimes its difficult to do that even with it. there are enough casualties in life. due to stress, urban angst and the desire to somehow achieve a little more than required.
ReplyDeleteand these things don't really come up to the surface till such time you are actually living the gutters. and calling it life.
i am getting too despondent. but there will and are good people. waiting. and i don't know how long they wait. but when you come across them, everything else fades into a distant rumble.
and the most important decisions about life, made in a flash. in one split second. without the mathematics of reason. and ignoring the physics of logic you realise you have met him.
and a new battle begins.
Sleep is a refuge, work is a substitute..This is exactly what urban legends are made of. Live with it, but don't live like it my lovely girl... Your world's meant to be slightly different. Better.
ReplyDelete:) It's been so so long since I last met you..and you've grown! (I feel like your mother now!:P)
Bangalore is a nice city...I lost some love there though...
Have fun Chamak Singh!
S
Hey! western railway!
ReplyDeleteKashi ahe tu?
Yes it has been really long since I met you but I must say my house is very much like yours. I have a loft like you had in your kitchen and the same chuna walls. Must see mine okay.
Still working with VH1?
miss ya ...
:P
yours truly,
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